Legal Resources by State
Each state has different laws and even then, each county in a state can have significant differences. Below is a list with links of some resources by state that can help you in family court. Beyond this, I encourage you to search the following to see what additional resources are available to you.
STATE JUDICIARY
The state judiciary is just another way to describe the judicial branch of the government for your state. Most judiciaries have a comprehensive website with forms and information. Depending on where you live, the state judiciary may have very general information, but those will usually have links and resources to more county-specific forms and information. Quite often, the state judiciary will have self-help forms that are family law specific. To find information on your state judiciary, simply do an internet search for your state's judicial branch. For example: "[state] state judiciary."
COUNTY RESOURCES
Courts are organized by county, and each county may have differences in operations, procedures, and paperwork. Links on the county court website will typically be more specific. You can search for "[your] county family court" or [your] county family law resources."
LEGAL AID CENTERS
Legal aid centers are a fabulous resource for anyone going through a divorce or custody dispute. Often, if you meet income qualifications, you may be eligible for a no-cost attorney. In addition, they have amazing resources for survivors of domestic abuse. Attorneys they provide may be in-house or may be private attorneys who accept pro bono (no charge) representation. In fact, I usually have at least one pro bono matter. Beyond that they have a wealth of forms, resources, workshops, and the like. Search for your county or state legal aid center to see what options are available to you. I tried to link as many as I could in the chart below.
LAW SCHOOLS
The law schools in your state can be a wonderful resource as well. Since they are based in academia, they often have information of the case laws and statutes that will apply to your divorce or custody dispute. Some offer clinics and presentations by law students and law professors to help you fill out paperwork, understand basic concepts, and make sense of the laws. Search "[law school] family law resources" to see what is available to you.
STATE BAR ASSOCIATIONS
Each state has a state bar association that is both the regulating authority for that state's attorneys. Often they have a plethora of resources for the general public as well. They may have information regarding legal aid services near you, attorneys who specialize in family law, and attorney referral services. Some have form libraries as well.
Below you will find a chart of readily available free online resources organized alphabetically by state. As mentioned above, this list is in no way comprehensive, and you should investigate the search topics listed above as well.